Shyness? Reluctance to speak? Autism? Or selective mutism?

When students in school, college or university do not speak in certain settings, despite talking freely in other situations, we cannot assume they choose not to speak or lack motivation to engage. How can we distinguish between shyness, refusal or inability to speak? Are we handling their silence appropriately? The answers to these questions will make all the difference between facilitating participation, engagement and verbal interaction and pushing the student deeper into withdrawal, isolation and avoidance. This introductory talk by Maggie Johnson looks to share strategies and practical suggestions about supporting students in one of these educational settings. Maggie Johnson, FRCSLT, is a speech and language therapist advisor specialising in childhood communication disorders and selective mutism (an anxiety disorder). With over thirty years of experience in education and community settings, Maggie supports adults with selective mutism and works closely with families and schools. She provides training and workshops across the UK and overseas and has appeared in several television documentaries about selective mutism.

SELECTIVE MUTISM Do You Have it? (3 Things YOU NEED to KNOW!) #autism

Image result for aspie world SELECTIVE MUTISM Do You Have it? (3 Things YOU NEED to KNOW!)


Selective mutism do you have it? These 3 super interesting things will help you know more about if you have it or not. It is the inability to speak when in a situation that there is an expectation to speak at.

Like in a social situation when you are expected to speak but do not. Selective mutism autism is commonly co-morbid with autism as it comes as part of selective mutism social anxiety.

How do I know if I have selective mutism?

1. Selective Mutism Social Anxiety: it is a part of a social anxiety condition, and presents it self as part of the social anxiety of social situations. If you already suffer from a social anxiety condition it is very possible and likely that you can and do suffer from selective mutism.

2. Selective Mutism And Autism: Autism is a neurological developmental condition characterised by social and communication difficulties. Autism also has co-morbid conditions attached to it, such as OCD, Dyslexia and Social Anxiety. This is to say that Selective mutism is very common within autism.

3. Selective Mutism Symptoms: Symptoms are mainly, overly anxious to talk in social situations so you do not talk. Another symptom is the inability to talk in a social situations and retreat back into yourself and do not engage with other people in social situations.

Selective mutism – find out more and share your story




As many of my readers will know by now I am the father of a nine year old boy with classic autism. Our ASD journey has opened my eyes to a number of different but , in some ways , related conditions of behaviours. From example last week we looked at Fragile X Syndrome. Today I would like to focus on Selective Mutism.

Affecting about 1 in 150 children Selective mutism (SM) is an anxiety disorder that stops children speaking in certain situations, for example when they are in school or out and about in public.




But they are able to speak to family and their friends when nobody else is listening. So for some children on the autism spectrum Selective Mutism can be a symptom.

As the UK’s NHS say “the child is not voluntarily refusing to speak but is literally unable to speak, feeling frozen. In time, they learn to anticipate the situations that provoke mutism and do all they can to avoid them.”

As with autism many children learn to cope and overcome a lot of the problems created for them by SM. However they will often be more reserved than their peers.




To help raise awareness of Selective Mutism we are sharing this great infographic produced by Kathryn Harper. You can read here blog post on SM here. Harper’s blog is one of the best sources of information on SM and is very well worth a read. That being said if you know of any good links please do share in the comments box below.

It would be great if you could use the comment box to share your Selective Mutism story. Anything you have to say is of great interest but you might want to focus on the following questions:-

a) Is it you or a family member with SM?
b) At what age did SM appear?
c) What therapies were employed and how well did they work?
d) What was the long term impact of Selective Mutism?
e) What advice would you give to a family where they has just been a diagnosis of Selective Mutism.

Thanks very much in advance for your help.

Selective mutism infographic

Selective mutism infographic

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