Autism and Education – Tips for children on the autism spectrum starting the new school year.

Autism and the new school year

Autism and the new school year

As I’m sure you know autism and education is one of the big themes of this blog. And for many in the autism community the new school year is about to begin. To with our commitment to crowd sourcing ideas from our readers we decided to ask our readers on FaceBook what they thought were good ideas by asking the question “What tips would you give for children on the autism spectrum just about to start the new school year?”.

The results were ( as always from the autism community) both abundant and useful. So here is a selection for you.

“Leading up to going back to school, I show him pictures of his new teachers, talk about school and generally just prepare him for it. Also put him into the holiday Club 1 day a week through summer hols, which is basically on the school campus x x” came from Julie.

While Kirsty said “The school should have provided the child with a social story that can be shared. This should include any teachers they will be working with together with a picture. If they are changing rooms they should have pictures of that room. Give them an idea of what the day will be like but make sure they know that things can change. Practice the school run/route before term starts including getting uniform on. There are normally admin staff in school a week or so before term so call them or the head and ask them if you can visit before term starts.”

Michelle told us “When my son started preschool, I brought him to the school for orientation so he could see the classroom, meet the teachers and therapists. I took pictures of them and the classroom and building. I got a copy of the daily schedule and used Powerpoint to create a social story for him on how his days would go. I do something similar whenever he does anything unfamiliar from getting a haircut to going to birthday parties. I can’t anticipate every challenge, but I hope it helps him. I always hyper-prepare for myself, because I get very anxious, too, in new situations and it helps me.”

“We make a special orientation just for my daughter where I can take her to her classrooms and introduce her to her new teacher. We go they’ll the whole schedule. What I do at home is start school work more rigorously 1 month ahead of time. I take her out and get new stuff and always try to get her excited for school. We have 1 month before school starts, but she is excited to go. I’ll be more nervous later, because she is in a whole new wing this year and now instead of being 1 year behind she is now 2. I think I need to prepare myself more than her really.” was Katie’s similar approach.

Another Michelle’s idea got a lot of support “I would tell parents to set up a meeting with all teachers that will be involved with your child so you can make your expectations of them to help your child”.

“Colour code your subjects on your timetable and colour code your books/folders to match the subject. Arrange a social story about the new year. Where the toilets will be, which teacher they will have, what the classroom may look like etc” is Rachel’s very organised idea.

As Brenda says there are a number of ways to crack the nut “Before the schools in our area instituted Back to School Night before school started, I made an appointment with his new teacher to bring him in and meet him/her and see where he would be sitting, get familiar with the classroom, find the bathroom nearest the classroom, etc. All of his teachers were cooperative and eager to help him transition well to a new classroom (mainstreamed always). Took him school shopping and let him pick his backpack, notebooks, etc.”

So is there anything else you would add to this? If so please feel free to add your suggestions to the comments boxes below.

Update

One thing I should mention is that I asked a similar question of another Facebook page. this time one run by a autism teaching expert called Trisha Katkin. Miss Katkin has shared some of her great posts with us in the past so please check them out here. Anyhow one of her readers named Tracy Sherriff has written a guide to this exact problem. The great news is that you can download it for free here.

Autism and Education – The Art of Ignoring Behaviours in 5 Steps by Trisha Katkin

Autism and education from Trisha Katkin

Autism and education from Trisha Katkin

 

Okay, I know I’ll get some feedback for this post, but I still think it is an important one. Occasionally you will run in behavior that is merely attention seeking in nature. I think we have all had the student that does something just to get you going. The behavior that your student displays just to get you to react, so that they can revel in their accomplishment.

Here’s a quick story.

I once had a student that bite the table, looked at me and smiled. Anytime I asked him to do work he would look up at me with his baby blue eyes and grin while holding the table between his teeth. This behavior seemed to happen anytime I needed him to do his work. He wouldn’t bite hard enough to hurt himself and he would stop as soon as I looked away. This behavior was clearly for my attention. I didn’t need a Functional Behavior Assessment to determine this one. The function was clear. He wanted to avoid work and he wanted me to react to his outrageous behavior of biting the table.

So what did I do?

I just ignored him. Anytime I asked him to do his work and he decided to bite the table, I ignored him.

And guess what?

The behavior stopped. Amazing right?

Now, you are probably thinking, ignoring is easy. Sure, I can do that. Or I’ve ignored behavior in the past, but nothing worked and the behavior never stopped.


Now what?

Well, before I delve into the 5 steps of ignoring, I want to preface all of this by saying that if your student is engaging in behavior that is dangerous or destructive, you must intervene. You simply cannot ignore behavior of that magnitude.

I also want to mention that not all behavior is that easy to determine. You may have behavior in your classroom that is not so cut and dry. Not so black and white. Here I would definitely suggest determining if the behavior is attention-seeking through a variety of methods including observation, using baseline data or a Functional Behavior Assessment. Also, check out my FREE email course, The 7-Step Social Story, which teach you the tricks for managing student behavior. Get it HERE!

As there are many reasons for student behavior I do not recommend ignoring as a behavior tactic unless all other functions of behavior (besides attention-seeking) have been ruled out. So make sure you observe your student closely, understand what a norm is for them, and conduct an FBA. You may even want to bring in another educator just to check and see if the behavior is directed just at you or every adult. You may even have students that conduct attention-seeking behavior as a method to get peers’ attention. In which case, ignoring may be the best option, followed by removal of either student to decrease the chance of inadvertent attention.




Now, before we talk about the steps we should talk about the types of behavior that we can ignore that MAY be attention-seeking in nature.

  • Pouting
  • Whining
  • Screaming
  • Arguing
  • Demanding that you do something they want
  • Crying
  • Throwing temper tantrums
  • Any other methods of inappropriately demanding attention

These are just to name a few. And as stated before, you cannot ignore behavior that is destructive or dangerous to the student or others. And these behaviors must clearly be correlated with attention seeking.

Please, please, please, err on the side of caution.

Do not assume that your student is engaging in attention-seeking behavior when something underlying could be going on. In the case of students that cannot tell you what is wrong, do not start with assuming that they are just trying to get your attention. They could be sick, hurt, or something else could be going on.

Okay, now let’s talk about the three types of ignoring:

  1. No Physical Contact

If possible, do not touch your student or let them touch you. Remember that student I talked about earlier? Well, if I didn’t respond to his behavior he would sometimes try and grab my hands to try and get me to physically remove his face from the table. If you have a student like this, calmly remove your hands from a position where your student can get them. Take a few steps back from the table, desk or area, if you can without your student conducting in other, more amped up, behavior. If you are in close proximity to your student and moving away is not an option, just remove their hands from your body in a calm even keeled manner. Try not to give the student any feedback that could be misconstrued as attention.

  1. No Verbal Contact

Do not talk to your student. Now I don’t mean, don’t EVER talk to your student, just don’t repeatedly talk to your student when they are engaging in the attention-seeking behavior. Give your student one (maybe two) verbal directions and that’s it. After that you can show your student any non-verbal cue that they know well. This could be a PEC or sign language.

Do not speak or say another word. Simply point to the PEC or sign until your student complies.

This is where many, many, many teachers fail. It may be tempting to think that your student didn’t hear you, or that they don’t know what they are supposed to be doing. So you repeatedly talk to them.

That’s wrong.

If a student is engaging in a behavior and it is truly attention-seeking in nature, and you have given them 2 verbal directions, showed them a non-verbal direction and they still continue to conduct that behavior, they understand. They probably know what you want them to do and they are just refusing. Continue to show the non-verbal cue until they stop the attention-seeking behavior and continue to complete the task at hand.

  1. No Eye Contact

Lastly, no eye contact. This can be a tricky one. I don’t necessarily mean, don’t look. I just mean, don’t get caught looking. And as always, you need to keep an eye on your student to ensure safety. Please don’t think I am saying walk out of the room and go get a cup of coffee. You still need to be aware of what your student is doing, just don’t let them know you are still watching.

So know that you know the 3 types of ignoring and depending on your situation, you may need to employ 1 or all 3 in conjunction with these next steps. Here are the 5 steps in the art of ignoring:

  1. Pick a Target Behavior

First start by deciding on the behavior that you want to decrease. Determine the function of the behavior and make sure that the behavior is merely attention-seeking in nature and not due a medical need, a pain, or injury. Use observation, baseline norm data, and an FBA as necessary.

  1. Remove any and all Attention when the Behavior Occurs

If and when the behavior occurs, remove any and all attention. This means employing any combination of the above 3 steps to effectively ignore the student.

  1. If You Are Going to Ignore, Be Consistent!

This one is probably the hardest. If you are going to ignore, you better follow through. If you decide that you are going to fight a battle and tell a student that their attention-seeking behavior is not okay, you need to follow through. EVERYTIME.  This is tough. And tiring. And it will drain you. If your student is strong-willed, you’ll probably want to give up. But believe me, give it a shot. Finish what you started and you are bound to see the results you wanted.

  1. Expect the Extinction Burst

An extinction burst. That’s a fancy word that behavior experts throw around to mean, expect the behavior to occur more often before it occurs less.

Here’s a fun example of an extinction burst.

Say, every day you went to the vending machine to buy a soda. And every day you bought the same soda to go with your lunch. One day you go to the machine to buy your daily soda only to find out that it is sold out. What do you do? You pressed the button and it said, “sold out.” The first thing many would do is hit the button 3 or 4 more times before we realize that that soda is not coming out.

That, my dear, is an extinction burst.

If your student has consistently gotten away with whatever behavior it is that you are trying to decrease, expect them to amp it up before it tones down. It’s a natural response. We all do it. Don’t get discouraged. Just expect it, account for it, work through it, and you can do it!

  1. Reward and Attend to the Appropriate Behavior as Soon as it Occurs

Now, eventually, hopefully, your student will realize that their attention-seeking behavior is not assuming to anyone else, and the reward of getting your attention (or anyone else’s) is not going to take place. You have employed a variety of techniques to create an environment of effective ignoring. You have been consistent, waited it out and now your student is displaying appropriate behavior.

Great! That’s what we want right? So the next thing you need to do is praise, praise, praise! Give all the attention in the world for appropriate behavior, and your student is bound to make the connection and continue to make the right choice.

Ignoring should not be used in a vacuum. It is important to note that ignoring on its own without use of positive behavior strategies and interventions is not best practice. It is one part in many strategies that help obtain desired behavior. Please see my post on PBIS Strategies in Students with Autism for more information regarding techniques for increasing desirable behavior.

Take time, be observant, and use ignoring sparingly, as needed and only when the behavior is attention-seeking, but not dangerous or destructive. Use base line data to check in and see if maybe your student is in pain, hurt, injured or in need of some sensory stimulation. Use help from colleagues or conduct a formal FBA if it is a consistent behavior that you think maybe be a bit more complicated. When in doubt, seek help and ask questions.

 

Until next time,

Trisha

 

TRISHAKATKIN.COM

 

10 Ways to Use Positive Behavior Supports for Students with Autism – a must read post from Trisha Katkin

10 Ways to Support Students With Autism

10 Ways to Support Students With Autism

Teach students with Autism?

Check!

Got challenging behavior?

Check!

What can I do?

Read on!

Why, hello there! I’m Trisha and I run a blog about reaching and teaching students with Autism. My main goal is to train teachers how to increase student engagement while teaching them strategies to decrease their own burnout.

Engaging a student with autism can be tough. The broad term “Autism” encompasses a whole spectrum of abilities and it’s important to note that although a strategy may work for one, it most certainly, won’t work for all. There’s a reason why people say, “If you’ve met one child with autism, you’ve met one child with autism.” Although every child is different, there seems to be one thing that rings true for all children with autism, Positivity! Using Positive Behavior Supports is a wonderful way to increase desirable behavior while simultaneously decreasing challenging behaviors.

  1. Pick Your Battles

Learn to ignore challenging behavior. To a degree…

Arguably, one of the hardest things to do, but most important. Pick your battles wisely. Inevitably, your student will have behaviors that are probably irritating, but not life threatening. Choose your battles. There is no need to get into a challenging power struggle with a student over something that is not hurting anyone. Unless the behavior is keeping another student from accessing a “Free and Appropriate” education, or it is hurting the student either physically or emotionally, there is probably no need to intervene.

If the behavior is clearly attention seeking and will not result in your student or a peer being injured, then ignore if possible. Chances are that these behaviors will lessen on their own.

  1. Make a Classroom Constitution!

Students with autism require clear expectations of the limits. Giving solid and concrete boundaries and limitations will help your students understand what is okay (and what is not okay) to do.

Preemptively setting ground rules will help clue your student. Just make sure to add pictures! Students with Autism think in pictures and are naturally very visual.

If possible, sit with your students and create a Classroom Constitution. Talk about ground rules and what is okay and not okay to do in class. Add pictures and voilà! Classroom Constitution!

If it is not possible to discuss the idea of ground rules and a Classroom Constitution, that’s okay too. Just simply create a bulletin board with the rules of your classroom and add pictures. Practice introducing the concepts during a discrete trial or individual session to pre-teach the concepts, then begin to generalize the ideas during other parts of the day.

  1. Listen to Your Student

Show your student respect and listen to him or her.

Now, I don’t necessarily mean have a heart-to-heart with your student, though that would be nice wouldn’t it? If our students could label and identify their feelings and tell us their needs and wants? But, unfortunately, our students have a difficult time understanding emotions. So, listen with a different kind of ear. Listen for the silent struggle. If your student is non-verbal, listen for the moan, groan, or cry that signals that your student is having a hard time. It’s important to decipher those vocalizations that tell you that your student is in distress. Show that you care, and respect your student’s feelings. Be the model to teach him or her the value and importance of understanding their emotions.

  1. Offer Options!

Coffee or tea? Vanilla or chocolate? Ketchup or mustard?

Choices make all the difference, don’t they?

Students with Autism want a choice, but need guidance. Free time is very difficult. Allowing your student to freely choose an activity is challenging for a few reasons. First he may not know how to play appropriately; or he just may have a hard time choosing from endless opportunities. It would be easy to choose from vanilla or chocolate; but does the ease of decision change if I offered you 31 flavors?

Sometimes, less is more.

Alleviate choice anxiety for your student by offering him 2 appropriate options for that given time period. If it is recess, maybe he could swing or play with the ball. If it is fine motor time and you are doing puzzles, offer him the option of one puzzle or the other. By offering choices you have given him a chance to be in control while you gain buy-in AND compliance into the activity you wish for them to complete. You have also allowed for him to be independent and make a good choice.




A great example in my classroom is during life skills time when the students are asked to brush their teeth. Many of my students have sensory difficulties with brushing their teeth, therefore, I end up having several challenging avoidance behaviors during this time. To alleviate part of the challenge I bought each student 2 different colored toothbrushes. That way, they always had a choice. “Do you want the red or blue toothbrush today?” That way the student understood that the expectation was to brush their teeth during this time every day, but at least had the choice of color and could choose independently.

Also, what a fabulous way to carry over color concepts from one setting to another!

Win-Win!

  1. Offer Breaks

Everyone needs breaks. Your students included. There have been several studies that have suggested that individuals need breaks in order to be more productive. Hello, 4-day work week! Many influential corporations such as Google and Lego implement smaller workweeks and more frequent vacations as they believe that time off sparks creativity.

If studies show that more breaks increase productivity in neurotypicals imagine the need for them in your classroom for your students where stimuli can be so overwhelming!

So, why not implement extra breaks into your students’ day? Take them as needed, schedule them in, make them a reward, just get them in there. Your student will thank you and you will get A LOT more work out of them.

  1. Use Clear, Concise, Positive Language

Okay, this is a BIG one. It’s vital for you to use simple, clear and concise language. Students with Autism have delayed language skills and require you to be direct and clear.

Say what you mean and mean what you say.

Do not add “fluff” to your sentences and avoid sarcasm. Try to use positive language as much as such as “safe hands,” or “quiet mouth.”

Definitely avoid using the phrase, “No, thank you,” as this phrase, although polite, is very confusing to students with Autism. Saying “No,” signals to a student that they should stop what they are doing, yet following it with “thank you,” indicates that they did something right and should continue. Choose your words wisely, frame it in a positive manner, be short, clear and direct and you will be golden!

  1. Give your Students a Paycheck!

Hello, paycheck! Let’s face it. We all work for some form of payment. Maybe it’s a paycheck at the end of the week or a glass of wine at the end of the day, whatever it is, it’s important to be rewarded for what you do. Your students feel the same way.

Students with Autism are all different. Reward frequently, and appropriately. Find what works and ride that wave for as long as it lasts. Need help finding the best reward system or discovering what your student will work for? Head on over to see me and sign up for my FREE ECourse, The 7-Step Social Story. I guarantee you’ll love it and you will be privy to all my future posts that will be diving deeper into all these topics. You will also be first in the know for when my Course, The Autism Quilt, opens for enrollment. Check it out here!

  1. Set-up for SUCCESS!

No one likes to be wrong. NO ONE. And your students are no different. In fact, many students with Autism have Obsessive Compulsive qualities that manifest in a variety of ways including hating to be wrong. Alleviate the stress of a potential meltdown by setting your student up for success in the first place. No, I don’t mean doing the work for him or giving him the answers to the test. I mean teaching for success. Set up Errorless Discrete Trial Training so that your student will succeed and feel proud of himself while he is learning. And again, if you need help, check me out! I got you covered! My future posts will cover just these topics. And you don’t want to miss out! Sign up here!

  1. Teach at Instructional Level

Okay, hopefully, this one seems obvious. It’s impossible to teach a kindergartener quantum physics so let’s not do that to our students. Teach at your student’s instructional level. Make sure that they are capable of understanding what you are trying to present to them BEFORE trying to present something to them.

Now, I know that this may present itself with a whole slew of problems. Common core and administrative control is breathing down your neck. I get it. But get creative!

ADAPT, ADAPT, ADAPT!

Take a lesson from the general education, or if you are self-contained, create one with common core goals in mind, but taught at your students’ level.

  1. Validate Feelings

Yup, it’s #10 on the list, but doesn’t change its importance. Validate your student’s feelings. Even if it seems irrational to you that your student is upset because he dropped a bit of jelly in his lap, or someone said the wrong phrasing of words, it is still their feelings. It doesn’t have to make sense to you, it does to them and that’s all that matters.  This goes along with #3, but takes it a step further. Your student needs to FEEL heard. If they are upset and want to talk or cry or yell (as long as they and others are safe,) let them. It’s important that your student drain off their emotions and feel genuinely heard. There is not much worse than being really upset and feeling like no one is listening. So sit back and try not to say anything. If your student if really upset, allow them to just vent. Don’t offer solutions, don’t get into a fight, just allow them to get it out however they can. You can always process the whole incident that set them off at a later time when they have calmed down. That is when you can discuss what happened and solutions for next time. It’s when your student is calm that the true healing can begin.

You Rock!

XO,

Trisha Katkin

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