Autism: What does it cost to raise an Autistic Child?

The Cost of Autism

The Cost of Autism

The costs of raising a child on the autism spectrum varies from one country to another.  But we though it would be useful to share Iris Lee’s article on the cost of bring up a child with ASD in Malaysia.

Close to 30,000 children with disabilities were registered in Malaysia in 2012, and 19,150 of them were children with learning disabilities, according to UNICEF’s record.

Learning difficulties are intellectual capabilities that are not on par with a person’s biological age, such as Down Syndrome, Late Global Development, Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), and dyslexia.

According to BERNAMA’s report in 2014, it is estimated that one out of every 600 children in Malaysia is born with autism. The article also shared recent statistics that revealed about 47,000 of the people in this country are autistic, with an estimation of four out of every 10,000 suffering from severe autism.

Autism is increasingly common today. Having a child with special needs often leads parents to a path that is riddled with frustration, difficult decisions, interfaces with various professionals and specialists, and endless research for better understanding and alternatives. A lot of the stress of this comes from the fact that all these things add onto the already heavy financial burden of raising a child.

According to an article published by Time Money in 2014, the cost of caring for an autistic individual over his or her lifetime in the US is US$1.4 million (RM5.4 million), based on a medical journal by JAMA Pediatrics.

This eviscerating cost of raising your special needs child can sometimes derail your family’s long-term financial goals. Knowing your options and how much they cost may help you in managing and balancing your finances.

We spoke to parents of autistic children in Malaysia to find out the financial story behind their unique family and the costs involved:

Diagnosis

Often parents are the first people who notice something is amiss with their child. According to Autism Speaks, some of the early signs of autism are failure to make eye contact, being unresponsive to his or her name or the tendency to play with toys in unusual, repetitive ways.

 

In today’s clinical advancement and awareness, diagnosis of disorders like Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is more common than before, and the chances of a professional diagnosis early on are also higher.

However, it wasn’t the case for a mother of an 8-year-old autistic child, Emily Loo, when her first child, J* was diagnosed at three years old, in 2010.

After going to a few places, J was finally brought to a Defeat Autism Now (DAN) doctor in Singapore for a full diagnosis and treatments. They spent S$600 (about RM1,417.10 at 0.4234 exchange rate in 2010) for the diagnosis, which includes the following:

1) Heavy Metal Testing -Hair Analysis

2) IGG Asian Food panel for 96 food items

3) Comprehensive Stool Analysis

4) Urine Organic Acid Test

Total cost of diagnosis: RM1,417 (one-time)

This was what Loo paid for back in 2010, and it did not include the cost of other places she went to before, while in search for an answer nor the cost of going down to Singapore itself. Today, the diagnosis might cost more due to medical inflation, but you might save more on transportation as diagnosis can be easily availed in Malaysia these days. In most cases though, you may still want to get multiple opinions before arriving at a conclusion.

Biomedical interventions

Most ASD cases require life-long treatments. After diagnosis, children suffering from this disorder may have to return for doctor’s visits to ensure that their body is coping with the many supplements they are taking.

 

One known intervention used on ASD individuals is the biomedical intervention. Based on the National Autism Association of Northwest Indiana, “biomed utilises standard medical tests to detect such things as: excessive amounts of bad bacteria in the gut, parasites, yeast, viruses, food allergies and heavy metal toxicity. These tests point out immune system dysfunction, metabolism abnormalities and underlying biochemical imbalances which are the cause of these medical problems and lead to autistic symptoms.”

J was put on biomedical intervention as soon as diagnosed, and the regular consultations and tests with the doctor cost about RM1,200 for each visit to Singapore.

These visits were scheduled for once every four months initially, then reduced to once every eight months, and eventually they stopped going to Singapore in 2012 when Loo found another DAN doctor in KL.

The local DAN doctor charged RM900 per hour, and they were scheduled for an hour session once every five months. Depending on the supplements prescribed to the child, the doctor might require the child to undergo a few tests, which cost about RM1,000 at Pantai Hospital Kuala Lumpur then. The tests were done to determine that the child’s liver is able to cope with the many supplements he/she is taking.

Cost for biomedical intervention (including tests) in Singapore: RM1,200 x 3 times a year
= RM3,600 a year
Cost for biomedical intervention in Kuala Lumpur: RM900 x 2 times a year
= RM1,800 a year
Cost of prescribed tests in Kuala Lumpur: RM1,000

Therapies

On top of the medical bills, there are many therapies and classes that children with autism are encouraged to go through to help them cope with their disorder and to eventually be independent. One of the most common therapies that autistic children subscribe to is the Applied Behavioural Analysis (ABA) therapy.




According to Behavioural Neurotherapy Clinic in Australia, “ABA therapy is based on the principle that influencing a response associated with a particular behaviour may cause that behaviour to be shaped and controlled. ABA therapy is a mixture of psychological and educational techniques that are tailored to the needs of each individual child to alter their behaviours. ABA involves the use of behavioural methods to measure behaviour, teach functional skills, and evaluate progress.”

Home-based ABA therapy costs about RM650 for J initially when they started out with two therapists, two hours each and four times a week. This was inclusive of the supervisor fee of RM90 per hour for once a month at the beginning.

When they saw improvement in the child, Loo and her husband increased the hours to three therapists for six hours a day and five days a week. This cost RM1,050, excluding the supervisor fee, which came for an hour once every two months (RM90 every two months).

Estimated cost for ABA therapy: RM1,050 a month
Estimated supervisor fees: RM90 every two months

 

Other therapies include Occupational Therapy (OT), which is important to an ASD child as it promotes, maintains, and develops the skills needed by them to be able to function well in a school setting and beyond. Therapist helps these children to develop skills for handwriting, fine motor skills and daily living skills. OT in Malaysia costs about RM120 per session. That would come up to RM480 for four sessions a month.

In severe cases of autism, the child can be non-verbal. Speech therapy helps autistic children to improve their verbal communications, and in severe cases, communications skills to help non-verbal children express themselves.

Loo also sent J for speech therapy once a week, at RM350 for assessment, RM135 per hour session, once a week. The cost came up to RM540 a month, and a one-time fee of RM350.

Another mother, Tan Wee Ling, a mother of a seven-year-old autistic son, enrolled him to speech therapy as well. According to Tan, speech therapy cost about RM70 per half an hour.

Total cost for OT and speech therapy:  RM1,020 a month
One-time assessment fee for speech therapy: RM350

J attends Speechelp in Petaling Jaya.

Special needs education

Education is one of the most important steps to preparing your special needs child’s future. Some of the main criteria a parent looks out for when choosing a school for their ASD kids are the teachers/therapists’ expertise in the field, cost, environment and facilities in the school. On top of this, location also plays quite an important factor.

Though special needs Malaysians who are enrolled in a national school are entitled to an allowance of RM150 from the government every month, parents still opt for private education for their special needs children mainly due to the lack of experienced teachers and facilities in national schools.

Private special needs education is expensive, and inclusive education where special needs children are able to learn together with neurotypical children is hard to come by.

Although generally private special needs education is more expensive than private schools for neurotypical children, comparing costs of the many special needs schools can still help you find one that will fit your budget.

Sending her son to school costs Loo about RM4,000 a month for half-day programme, and an additional RM1,500 every six months for other miscellaneous charges.

Mark Jackson, a father of a 13-year-old child diagnosed with autism and multiple disorders (speech and occupational), spends about RM4,500 a month on school fees. However, as the school his son attends also provide speech and occupational therapies, he does not need to fork out additional money for these therapies outside of school.

Total cost of education: RM3,550 to RM4,500 a month

The schools quoted are Hope Bridge and The Learning Connection.

Extra-curricular classes

Enrichment classes are highly encouraged for children with ASD as they promote socialisation, friendship building, and other enrichment opportunities, which can be of great benefit to these children.

 

Here are some of the common classes available for special needs children:

  1. Gym

To train the child on their gross motor skills and body awareness, gym classes are available for these special children, and this easily costs RM130 to RM150 a month.

  1. Music

According to the Journal of Music Therapy 2004, music was found beneficial as interventions for children and teens with ASD. It was found to improve social behaviours, increase focus and attention, improve communication such as vocalisations, verbalisations, gestures, and vocabulary, reduce anxiety, and improve body awareness and coordination.

As such, Tan enrolled her son for music classes which sets her back by RM180 a month.

  1. Swimming

Children with autism benefit greatly from physical activity such as swimming, as they can help them improve speech, coordination, social skills, self-esteem, and cognitive processing (Autism Spectrum Disorder Foundation (ASDF)).

All three parents interviewed send their children to swimming classes, specialised in special needs children. This can cost about RM200 a month.

Though, these fees are not much higher than what you would pay to send a neurotypical child to these classes, they are more important to ASD children compared to other children. Missing classes or opting out of these classes may affect the child’s improvement.

Cost of extra-curricular classes: RM530 a month

Gym fee is based on a gym in Bandar Sunway, swimming is based on the rate of a specialised special needs swimming instructor in Bangsar.

Special diet

Autism is a complex disorder, and many interventions include elimination of allergens such as gluten and casein from the child’s diet. According to Autism Research Institute, dietary intervention is a medical approach with convincing practical evidence that special diets help many with autism. What this means is, without following the right diet, medical treatments might not be as effective.

 

Many parents of ASD children observed behavioural improvement when their children eat a gluten- and casein-free diet. Gluten is found primarily in wheat, barley and rye, while casein, in dairy products.

Loo, believes this helped J, and she constantly stocks up on such food. Initially, when they used to go to Singapore for J’s medical follow-up consultation, she would stock up on gluten- and casein-free food products there, as these products were not easily available in Kuala Lumpur back then. She spent RM300 on these every visit.

As these products became more commonly available in Malaysia, she started shopping for the specific food for J in Malaysia. However, with inflation, the cost of food has also increased. When J was still on gluten- and casein-free diet, she used to spend RM170 a week on special allergen-free and organic food for him.

Special diet: RM680 a month

How much does everything cost?

A special needs child needs so much more attention and intervention to help, and all of these cost money. Here is a list of expenses a parent with a special needs child can expect:

Item Cost Frequency
Diagnosis RM1,417 One-time cost
Biomedical intervention RM2,800 Yearly
Therapies RM2,070 Monthly
Supervisor fees for therapies RM540 Yearly
Assessment for Occupational Therapy RM350 One-time cost
Special needs education RM4,500 Monthly
Extra-curricular classes RM530 Monthly
Special diet RM680 Monthly
Total cost
Total one-time cost RM1,767
Total yearly cost RM96,700

Yes, the sad truth is, to provide proper and the best help for your special needs child in Malaysia is not cheap.

Education is one of the most expensive aspect of raising a special needs children, and if private education is not an option, parents can still consider national schools. Here’s a list of government schools that offer special education.

Therapy and schooling options are also available for those who are financially tight. National Autism Society of Malaysia (NASOM) offers vocational, residential, early intervention, mainstreaming, pre-vocational, and transition programmes, therapies and assessment and diagnosis, with 19 centres across Peninsular and East Malaysia.

The IDEAS Autism Centre (IAC) in Rawang also offers special needs education and therapies for ASD children from low-income families.

For parents who would like to continue the therapy with the child at home, ANDI Initiative, led by Intan Miranti, offers a 5-month parent training programme, since 2007, to equip parents with more skills and support to teach their child the missing skills, and to manage their child’s behaviour in a child-respectful manner. The average cost for the training programme is RM650 per month, with total cost coming up to RM3,250.

This may seem like a big sum for most parents, but being equipped with the skills to support your child at home may be able to save you cost on therapies in the long-run. The intakes for the programme run twice a year.

Whichever option you choose for your ASD child, some of the most important factors that Jackson, the father of an ASD teen considered are, firstly, the qualification and expertise of the teachers and their experience in managing special needs children. Secondly, ask if they have a well-rounded curriculum that caters to the needs of the child whether it’s physical or educational, or both.

“As a parent, you need to identify where in the spectrum does your child “fit”, and with the help of the teachers, work out a plan for your child’s needs,” added Jackson.

Parents of special needs children are constantly going against the flow that society set on what constitutes good and healthy children. It’s undoubtedly tiring trying to change the world’s view on their child and you’d always want to make it easier by reducing the pressures on your finances.

With the costs we’ve illustrated above, we hope that parents of ASD children will have an idea of what costs to expect and to factor that in to where they stand financially. This will help them plan and rein in their finances if needed to cope with the additional financial costs.

Parents of autistic children worry about what the future will hold for their special children, but perhaps, we just need to take a glimpse into the world of an autistic child to understand them better.

As said by Chuck Grassley, a senior United States Senator from Iowa, “What makes a child gifted and talented may not always be good grades in school, but a different way of looking at the world and learning.”

* Name has been changed to protect the identity of the child.

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A letter to teachers from “Every special needs child they will ever teach”.

Letter to autism teachers

Letter to autism teachers

We have been given permission to share a letter written by Mrs Hazel Greene on behalf of all special needs children to their teachers.  She says “we have two children on the autism spectrum. Our youngest is 10. Lately, I have gotten the feeling that his teacher just doesn’t like him. I wrote this letter to teachers everywhere…from…every special needs kid you will ever teach. Please feel free to share.”

You can find our more about Mrs Greene and her organisation Hope Springs Advocates by going to their web site http://hopespringsadvocate.com/

She writes:

“Dear Teacher,

I just wanted you to know;

I have special needs; there are things I do not understand. I look to you to help me figure out your world. I wish you would try to figure out my world too.

Today, when I was making that sound with my feet, I was reacting to sights and smells, lights, and noises all going on around me. Things you may never notice, but are very troublesome to me. After time, they make me feel anxious and nervous. I try to follow your rules of being still and quiet, but sometimes everything overwhelms me, and I am afraid I can’t hold it in. And then I am afraid you will be angry with me if I don’t, and that makes everything much worse.

At night when I go to sleep, my mind replays the things I have heard throughout my day; why can’t you be quiet, just get in line, keep your hands to yourself, leave that alone, what’s wrong with you? Then I wonder what IS wrong with me? Why can’t my teacher love me the way I am… like she does the normal kids? Why can’t I be normal? Does that mean I can only be loved if I am normal?

I wish you could see how hard it is for me to be who you want me to be. And when I get it right, even just once…I would be the happiest kid alive if you could celebrate that time with me. You see, I want to be just the kid you want me to be, honest! I want to be the one you smile at when I walk in the door. It is so very hard for me. Sometimes, I think I should just give up.

You don’t know this, but you will in one way or another be a part of my life for the rest of my life. Could you please think for a minute…do you want to be a positive experience that equips me for success? Or do you want to be the one that brings the sadness to my eyes whenever someone talks of school, and learning? You hold within your hands the power to bless my world or curse it. You tell me to make good choices. It’s your turn now. Will you choose wisely?

Yours truly,

Every special needs child you will ever teach”

Written by Mrs. Hazel Greene
Hope Springs Advocates

You can download the original flyer here  Hope springs advocates

Survey about the Common Core and Students with Disabilities

 

Survey about the Common Core and Students with Disabilities

Survey about the Common Core and Students with Disabilities

You are invited to participate in a national survey about the Common Core State Standards (CCSS) and students with disabilities.

The purposes of this research are to: (a) identify the extent to which special education teachers are familiar with the CCSS; (b) identify the extent to which special education teachers use the CCSS in their classrooms; and (c) identify the perspectives of special education teachers toward the CCSS as applied to the instruction of students with disabilities.

My name is Damien E. LaRock, and I am a doctoral candidate at Teachers College, Columbia University in New York. If you have any questions about this survey, you may contact me at del2109@tc.columbia.edu.

In order to qualify for this study, you must:

(a) be/have been a teacher who holds a certificate and/or degree in special education (teaching students with disabilities) and

(b) have taught at least one student with a disability [a student with an Individualized Education Program (IEP)] between grades Kindergarten and 12 while using the CCSS.

If you meet the above qualifications and would like to participate, please click on the link below. Completing this survey is voluntary and you may stop at any time or skip any questions you do not wish to answer. This survey generally takes about 10-15 minutes to complete. Your name will not be collected, and any personal information you provide will be completely confidential. Only results without identifying information will be presented. You will learn more about this study when you click on the link, after which you may begin the survey.

As an incentive, you will be entered into a lottery to receive one of several $50.00 Amazon e-gift cards. Your chances of winning the lottery are approximately 1 in 50.

If you know other special education teachers who qualify as participants for this study, you may share the survey link with them.

I appreciate your input very much! It will help me to complete my doctoral research and it will add valuable information to the national discussion about special education and the CCSS!

 

https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/ccssdisabilities

So what actually is special education? Some tips for parents of children on the autism spectrum.

With the new school year coming up with thought it would be useful to share this infographic.

It gives a great overview of what special needs education actually means and involves.

Thus it is well worth sharing among the autism and adhd communities.

Unfolding-Special-Education-Infographic
Find more education infographics on e-Learning Infographics

Autism and Education Part Two – Compromise or Half Way House? Our Autistic son’s educational journey explained. What is your child’s journey!

Autism Awareness and EducationChildren

Autism Awareness and Education

Sorry about the odd title but this is one of those opportunities to write a more personal blog about autism than usual.

As you may know we have a seven year old son who was diagnosed just over four years ago with what can be described as classic autism.  Pretty much since the day of his diagnosis on 1st September 2009 (around 11.00am) (yes I do remember without having to look it up) he has been in the education system here in London, England.

Just before his third birthday (I should mention that he showed serious regression around his second birthday) he entered a kindergarten/nursery which catered for pre-schoolers with autism.   What was novel, at least for me, was the nursery was part of a mainstream school.  Referred to as a ResourceBase it provided a specialist autism unit which existed within and was supported by the mainstream primary school.

The hope was that pupils in the unit would move on at the ages of 4-5 to a mainstream school, having been provided with the tools to be able to cope in such an environment.

Our son, after two years at the unit, progressed to our local primary school.  The first year, we all felt, was a success for him and the school.  However, he experienced a great deal of difficulty at the age of 5-6 dealing with the more formal instruction provided by the school after the initial year.  I have to say here that both his teachers and his support workers were absolutely brilliant but it was felt, and we agreed, in the short to medium term that our son would benefit from more specialised support.

So you can imagine our delight when we found out that another school in the areas was providing the same ResourceBase education.  This time for children aged 4-11.    After a certain amount of waiting around he was offered a place.  The key thing about this approach to educating  ASD children  is that, while they are based in a specialist unit, around 50% of their time is spent in mainstream classes with their own age group.

While the transition from mainstream to specialist unit has been hard, (he hates changes in routine!) we have found, two and a half months in, that we now see some real improvements.

Firstly he no longer cries when he has to go to school.  Yes, a bit of complaining but nothing like the previous school.  Secondly he is starting slowly to make some advances in academic work.  Indeed this morning on the way to school he asked me how various words were spelt.  You cannot imagine my delight – this has never happened before.  Unless you count his discussion about numbers yesterday afternoon.

That being said, making friends still seems to be hard.  He does seem to prefer the company of neurotypical children.

So, all in all, for our son the middle path between mainstream and specialist school seems to work.

So what about you?  I’d be really interested in finding out a bit more about how our readers with autistic children have fared in the education system.    You may wish to think about it in terms of the following questions:

a)   What was the exact diagnosis of your child and at what age were they diagnosed?

b)  How would you describe their overall profile in terms of behaviour and cognition?  What are their biggest challenges?

c)    What sort of education have they received?  Do you follow any particular strategies both at home and at school?

d)  Have they changed schools during their education because of their ASD?  Please tell us how this transition has worked out.

e)   How would you, in a perfect world, have had your child educated?

f)     What advice about education would you give to somebody who has just has their child diagnosed with autism?

Please feel free to use the comments box below to share your child’s educational story.  You can read the first part of our autism and education series here https://patienttalk.org/?p=977

Thanks very much in advance.

 

LindaGiguere I Really Enjoyed Reading This Post. While I’m Not The ParenT Of AN Autistic Child, As A Teacher I’ve Come To Know Many.
lovemyboy charlieandme234 lovemyboy  I am glad the dyslexia has been recognised. It is sometimes argued that the frustrations of dyslexia cause all the behavioural issues so they may be trying to wriggle out of a autism diagnoses that way. If your son is anything like mine then the meltdowns are way more than that. Many children at the ‘higher end’ of the spectrum do make friends and do make moves to be social it is not until the rules get more complicated and the other children more observant that the problems really start. My son has only being having problems in the last year it started with party invites dropping off and now he is down to one friend and being bullied. Not trying to worry you but I would just encourage you to get a full assessment done. I was also told for many years that ‘he has friends so can’t be autistic’. My brother was diagnosed with aspergers at 27 (he was diagnosed in school with dyslexia), he made friends and didn’t have issues with other children until secondary school. Good luck and I hope the conformation of dyslexia helps with your sons reading and writing. x
charlieandme234 lovemyboy charlieandme234   hi there we have just had a cognitive report done and we have been told that he does have dyslexia  which is a great step towards helping him at school but now they are say they are not sure if he is autistic  because he is to social so we are back to square one it is driving me crazy  we have another appointment with a doctor to get him another assessment. hope things are  getting better for your boy
lovemyboy charlieandme234  My son is also seven (coming on 8).He could not read or write until six months ago. He has been waiting for an assessment for ASD with an expected positive diagnoses (at the asperger/higher functioning end). He goes to a mainstream school at the moment and has terrible problems with socialization, I agree totally that our sons do not need fixing, it is the other children’s reactions to my sons attempts at friendship than anything he is doing ‘wrong’ that are the problem in my eyes. The turning point for my son was when he had a test for dyslexia (which is not uncommon to run along side ASD) and is now getting schooled in a way that he understands, he has really flown since and has almost caught up with the other children in reading and writing. It is very important that each child is taught in a way that they understand (they have not failed to learn, the education system has failed to teach). Good luck with it all. x
charlieandme234 my son is 7 and still can not read or write and it was thanks to his teacher we got a diagnosed and for thank i am very thankful many people thought it was that i need to discipline him more  or feed him more fish oil and less junk food. The teacher thought it was ADHD but when told it was autism and that he was social and emotional age 3 she understood him more and has done everything in her power to help us. we are not waiting on a cognitive report to see how best to help him learn as the doctor told us it is not charlie that needs fixing but everyone else. It’s still not easy when everyone is looking at you with judgment in their eyes when he is having a meltdown after school or why he is always caring around his monkey teddy but we continue to try and education these simple minded people and carry on focusing on him and his education and always telling our self that is will not last forever
RaeRae1 Don’t any other parents feel like they are autistic too?  I feel that way.  Which makes it harder to work with the system I suspect.
My 13 year old son was diagnosed with ADHD when he was 5, in kindergarten.  It was too much, and I ended up taking him out of school and homeschooling him until 3rd grade, and we found a neat little charter school in it’s prime, it was a natural sciences environment where he thrived for a year until they made too many changes and moved away from the nature aspect. During this time we got a diagnosis of autistic spectrum disorder with some comments and a little social and physical therapy. I then home schooled him for half a year and got sick myself so ended up mainstreaming with an IEP for 2 years, which was mostly a struggle and I had to be in constant contact with the school.  I feel rather disagreeable towards the constant interaction required for him to be treated humanely.  He’s now in 7th grade, a specialized program full of kids on the spectrum where he goes to regular classes but has extra support and supervision.  It’s hard to tell how that is going, because he got mononucleosis (Epstein Barr virus)  from drinking from the school fountain how only an autistic kid would, so he has missed probably 2 months of school and it’s only December.  But the bullying there seems pretty severe the times he does make it, so I am leaning towards trying a community college type approach or one of the online schools so he can still get the education he needs, but I would need to find some social therapies to involve him with if I go that route.  It’s a constant challenge for me, as he is where I stopped being able to attend regular school as a child, but never having a formal diagnosis I never understood why it was so hard for me.  I did great in college etc. but my challenges never were academic.  The change and number of people and harshness of everything just seems destructive to my world, and I wonder the point of acclimating a child to it when even as an adult they will not tolerate it well and will find ways to work away from those environments.  Anyhow, that’s just my two cents.
missyj6342 I have a son who is now 14. He was not diagnosed with Autism until the end of his fifth grade year of school. Up till that time we were told my son had ADHD and teachers and doctors were treating him as such but I knew their was something more to it. In elementary school setting he was primarily in mainstream class with resource help. But when middle school came and classes became harder and beimg popular was important my son regressed hugly. The school he was attending was not suited for a child like my son and the teachers couldn’t “handle” him. They tried to place him in a special day class and that made dealing with other students more difficult. My son was not meant for that type of class because he was not so slow in learning, he had more difficult time socializing. After only one year their with whay seemed no help from that school I decided to fight our school district to send him to another school. I foumd a school with a program that was for children who had more emotional issues then learning issues. Where he was taught everything in a mainstream class but this class was smaller and the students all had emotional behavior.this helped my son learn to cope with classes his emotions and the issues of being a preteen and teen. Now in high school. My son is taking all mainstre am classes with 2 periods of study skills where he is learning how to handle differwnt social environments and social cues. I truly feel that had I not changed schools and look for an alternative that my son would have continued to regress. Now at 14 he is thriving. Doing great academically and socializing in the minimum but still willimh to try