Autism: What does it cost to raise an Autistic Child?

The Cost of Autism

The Cost of Autism

The costs of raising a child on the autism spectrum varies from one country to another.  But we though it would be useful to share Iris Lee’s article on the cost of bring up a child with ASD in Malaysia.

Close to 30,000 children with disabilities were registered in Malaysia in 2012, and 19,150 of them were children with learning disabilities, according to UNICEF’s record.

Learning difficulties are intellectual capabilities that are not on par with a person’s biological age, such as Down Syndrome, Late Global Development, Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), and dyslexia.

According to BERNAMA’s report in 2014, it is estimated that one out of every 600 children in Malaysia is born with autism. The article also shared recent statistics that revealed about 47,000 of the people in this country are autistic, with an estimation of four out of every 10,000 suffering from severe autism.

Autism is increasingly common today. Having a child with special needs often leads parents to a path that is riddled with frustration, difficult decisions, interfaces with various professionals and specialists, and endless research for better understanding and alternatives. A lot of the stress of this comes from the fact that all these things add onto the already heavy financial burden of raising a child.

According to an article published by Time Money in 2014, the cost of caring for an autistic individual over his or her lifetime in the US is US$1.4 million (RM5.4 million), based on a medical journal by JAMA Pediatrics.

This eviscerating cost of raising your special needs child can sometimes derail your family’s long-term financial goals. Knowing your options and how much they cost may help you in managing and balancing your finances.

We spoke to parents of autistic children in Malaysia to find out the financial story behind their unique family and the costs involved:

Diagnosis

Often parents are the first people who notice something is amiss with their child. According to Autism Speaks, some of the early signs of autism are failure to make eye contact, being unresponsive to his or her name or the tendency to play with toys in unusual, repetitive ways.

 

In today’s clinical advancement and awareness, diagnosis of disorders like Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is more common than before, and the chances of a professional diagnosis early on are also higher.

However, it wasn’t the case for a mother of an 8-year-old autistic child, Emily Loo, when her first child, J* was diagnosed at three years old, in 2010.

After going to a few places, J was finally brought to a Defeat Autism Now (DAN) doctor in Singapore for a full diagnosis and treatments. They spent S$600 (about RM1,417.10 at 0.4234 exchange rate in 2010) for the diagnosis, which includes the following:

1) Heavy Metal Testing -Hair Analysis

2) IGG Asian Food panel for 96 food items

3) Comprehensive Stool Analysis

4) Urine Organic Acid Test

Total cost of diagnosis: RM1,417 (one-time)

This was what Loo paid for back in 2010, and it did not include the cost of other places she went to before, while in search for an answer nor the cost of going down to Singapore itself. Today, the diagnosis might cost more due to medical inflation, but you might save more on transportation as diagnosis can be easily availed in Malaysia these days. In most cases though, you may still want to get multiple opinions before arriving at a conclusion.

Biomedical interventions

Most ASD cases require life-long treatments. After diagnosis, children suffering from this disorder may have to return for doctor’s visits to ensure that their body is coping with the many supplements they are taking.

 

One known intervention used on ASD individuals is the biomedical intervention. Based on the National Autism Association of Northwest Indiana, “biomed utilises standard medical tests to detect such things as: excessive amounts of bad bacteria in the gut, parasites, yeast, viruses, food allergies and heavy metal toxicity. These tests point out immune system dysfunction, metabolism abnormalities and underlying biochemical imbalances which are the cause of these medical problems and lead to autistic symptoms.”

J was put on biomedical intervention as soon as diagnosed, and the regular consultations and tests with the doctor cost about RM1,200 for each visit to Singapore.

These visits were scheduled for once every four months initially, then reduced to once every eight months, and eventually they stopped going to Singapore in 2012 when Loo found another DAN doctor in KL.

The local DAN doctor charged RM900 per hour, and they were scheduled for an hour session once every five months. Depending on the supplements prescribed to the child, the doctor might require the child to undergo a few tests, which cost about RM1,000 at Pantai Hospital Kuala Lumpur then. The tests were done to determine that the child’s liver is able to cope with the many supplements he/she is taking.

Cost for biomedical intervention (including tests) in Singapore: RM1,200 x 3 times a year
= RM3,600 a year
Cost for biomedical intervention in Kuala Lumpur: RM900 x 2 times a year
= RM1,800 a year
Cost of prescribed tests in Kuala Lumpur: RM1,000

Therapies

On top of the medical bills, there are many therapies and classes that children with autism are encouraged to go through to help them cope with their disorder and to eventually be independent. One of the most common therapies that autistic children subscribe to is the Applied Behavioural Analysis (ABA) therapy.




According to Behavioural Neurotherapy Clinic in Australia, “ABA therapy is based on the principle that influencing a response associated with a particular behaviour may cause that behaviour to be shaped and controlled. ABA therapy is a mixture of psychological and educational techniques that are tailored to the needs of each individual child to alter their behaviours. ABA involves the use of behavioural methods to measure behaviour, teach functional skills, and evaluate progress.”

Home-based ABA therapy costs about RM650 for J initially when they started out with two therapists, two hours each and four times a week. This was inclusive of the supervisor fee of RM90 per hour for once a month at the beginning.

When they saw improvement in the child, Loo and her husband increased the hours to three therapists for six hours a day and five days a week. This cost RM1,050, excluding the supervisor fee, which came for an hour once every two months (RM90 every two months).

Estimated cost for ABA therapy: RM1,050 a month
Estimated supervisor fees: RM90 every two months

 

Other therapies include Occupational Therapy (OT), which is important to an ASD child as it promotes, maintains, and develops the skills needed by them to be able to function well in a school setting and beyond. Therapist helps these children to develop skills for handwriting, fine motor skills and daily living skills. OT in Malaysia costs about RM120 per session. That would come up to RM480 for four sessions a month.

In severe cases of autism, the child can be non-verbal. Speech therapy helps autistic children to improve their verbal communications, and in severe cases, communications skills to help non-verbal children express themselves.

Loo also sent J for speech therapy once a week, at RM350 for assessment, RM135 per hour session, once a week. The cost came up to RM540 a month, and a one-time fee of RM350.

Another mother, Tan Wee Ling, a mother of a seven-year-old autistic son, enrolled him to speech therapy as well. According to Tan, speech therapy cost about RM70 per half an hour.

Total cost for OT and speech therapy:  RM1,020 a month
One-time assessment fee for speech therapy: RM350

J attends Speechelp in Petaling Jaya.

Special needs education

Education is one of the most important steps to preparing your special needs child’s future. Some of the main criteria a parent looks out for when choosing a school for their ASD kids are the teachers/therapists’ expertise in the field, cost, environment and facilities in the school. On top of this, location also plays quite an important factor.

Though special needs Malaysians who are enrolled in a national school are entitled to an allowance of RM150 from the government every month, parents still opt for private education for their special needs children mainly due to the lack of experienced teachers and facilities in national schools.

Private special needs education is expensive, and inclusive education where special needs children are able to learn together with neurotypical children is hard to come by.

Although generally private special needs education is more expensive than private schools for neurotypical children, comparing costs of the many special needs schools can still help you find one that will fit your budget.

Sending her son to school costs Loo about RM4,000 a month for half-day programme, and an additional RM1,500 every six months for other miscellaneous charges.

Mark Jackson, a father of a 13-year-old child diagnosed with autism and multiple disorders (speech and occupational), spends about RM4,500 a month on school fees. However, as the school his son attends also provide speech and occupational therapies, he does not need to fork out additional money for these therapies outside of school.

Total cost of education: RM3,550 to RM4,500 a month

The schools quoted are Hope Bridge and The Learning Connection.

Extra-curricular classes

Enrichment classes are highly encouraged for children with ASD as they promote socialisation, friendship building, and other enrichment opportunities, which can be of great benefit to these children.

 

Here are some of the common classes available for special needs children:

  1. Gym

To train the child on their gross motor skills and body awareness, gym classes are available for these special children, and this easily costs RM130 to RM150 a month.

  1. Music

According to the Journal of Music Therapy 2004, music was found beneficial as interventions for children and teens with ASD. It was found to improve social behaviours, increase focus and attention, improve communication such as vocalisations, verbalisations, gestures, and vocabulary, reduce anxiety, and improve body awareness and coordination.

As such, Tan enrolled her son for music classes which sets her back by RM180 a month.

  1. Swimming

Children with autism benefit greatly from physical activity such as swimming, as they can help them improve speech, coordination, social skills, self-esteem, and cognitive processing (Autism Spectrum Disorder Foundation (ASDF)).

All three parents interviewed send their children to swimming classes, specialised in special needs children. This can cost about RM200 a month.

Though, these fees are not much higher than what you would pay to send a neurotypical child to these classes, they are more important to ASD children compared to other children. Missing classes or opting out of these classes may affect the child’s improvement.

Cost of extra-curricular classes: RM530 a month

Gym fee is based on a gym in Bandar Sunway, swimming is based on the rate of a specialised special needs swimming instructor in Bangsar.

Special diet

Autism is a complex disorder, and many interventions include elimination of allergens such as gluten and casein from the child’s diet. According to Autism Research Institute, dietary intervention is a medical approach with convincing practical evidence that special diets help many with autism. What this means is, without following the right diet, medical treatments might not be as effective.

 

Many parents of ASD children observed behavioural improvement when their children eat a gluten- and casein-free diet. Gluten is found primarily in wheat, barley and rye, while casein, in dairy products.

Loo, believes this helped J, and she constantly stocks up on such food. Initially, when they used to go to Singapore for J’s medical follow-up consultation, she would stock up on gluten- and casein-free food products there, as these products were not easily available in Kuala Lumpur back then. She spent RM300 on these every visit.

As these products became more commonly available in Malaysia, she started shopping for the specific food for J in Malaysia. However, with inflation, the cost of food has also increased. When J was still on gluten- and casein-free diet, she used to spend RM170 a week on special allergen-free and organic food for him.

Special diet: RM680 a month

How much does everything cost?

A special needs child needs so much more attention and intervention to help, and all of these cost money. Here is a list of expenses a parent with a special needs child can expect:

Item Cost Frequency
Diagnosis RM1,417 One-time cost
Biomedical intervention RM2,800 Yearly
Therapies RM2,070 Monthly
Supervisor fees for therapies RM540 Yearly
Assessment for Occupational Therapy RM350 One-time cost
Special needs education RM4,500 Monthly
Extra-curricular classes RM530 Monthly
Special diet RM680 Monthly
Total cost
Total one-time cost RM1,767
Total yearly cost RM96,700

Yes, the sad truth is, to provide proper and the best help for your special needs child in Malaysia is not cheap.

Education is one of the most expensive aspect of raising a special needs children, and if private education is not an option, parents can still consider national schools. Here’s a list of government schools that offer special education.

Therapy and schooling options are also available for those who are financially tight. National Autism Society of Malaysia (NASOM) offers vocational, residential, early intervention, mainstreaming, pre-vocational, and transition programmes, therapies and assessment and diagnosis, with 19 centres across Peninsular and East Malaysia.

The IDEAS Autism Centre (IAC) in Rawang also offers special needs education and therapies for ASD children from low-income families.

For parents who would like to continue the therapy with the child at home, ANDI Initiative, led by Intan Miranti, offers a 5-month parent training programme, since 2007, to equip parents with more skills and support to teach their child the missing skills, and to manage their child’s behaviour in a child-respectful manner. The average cost for the training programme is RM650 per month, with total cost coming up to RM3,250.

This may seem like a big sum for most parents, but being equipped with the skills to support your child at home may be able to save you cost on therapies in the long-run. The intakes for the programme run twice a year.

Whichever option you choose for your ASD child, some of the most important factors that Jackson, the father of an ASD teen considered are, firstly, the qualification and expertise of the teachers and their experience in managing special needs children. Secondly, ask if they have a well-rounded curriculum that caters to the needs of the child whether it’s physical or educational, or both.

“As a parent, you need to identify where in the spectrum does your child “fit”, and with the help of the teachers, work out a plan for your child’s needs,” added Jackson.

Parents of special needs children are constantly going against the flow that society set on what constitutes good and healthy children. It’s undoubtedly tiring trying to change the world’s view on their child and you’d always want to make it easier by reducing the pressures on your finances.

With the costs we’ve illustrated above, we hope that parents of ASD children will have an idea of what costs to expect and to factor that in to where they stand financially. This will help them plan and rein in their finances if needed to cope with the additional financial costs.

Parents of autistic children worry about what the future will hold for their special children, but perhaps, we just need to take a glimpse into the world of an autistic child to understand them better.

As said by Chuck Grassley, a senior United States Senator from Iowa, “What makes a child gifted and talented may not always be good grades in school, but a different way of looking at the world and learning.”

* Name has been changed to protect the identity of the child.

The article is contributed by iMoney.my, Malaysia’s leading financial comparison website. Compare and apply for the best products, such as credit cardbroadband and personal loans, visit www.iMoney.my

How Autism Parents Lose Friends: Gripping Infographic

 

Firstly can I thank Teresa of Embracing the Spectrum for allowing us to share this infographic with you.

You can see the original infographic on her site here!

I’m sure that my wife and I are not the only people who have lost friends since our son was diagnosed with autism but it is a slight comfort to know we are not alone.

How Autism Moms Lose Friends: Gripping Infographic

How Autism Moms Lose Friends: Gripping Infographic

Autism: Picky Eating and how to improve the range of foods autistic children eat

Autism Diets Julie Matthews

Autism Diets Julie Matthews

We have cover this topic a few times on the blog but we thought you might find this video on introducing new foods to kids on the autism spectrum.

Check out our previous post here.

Autism – What is Vocal or Verbal Stimming?

What is Vocal or Verbal Stimming?

What is Vocal or Verbal Stimming?

As you may have noticed we have covered a few of Ask an Autistic’s autism information and awareness videos in the past. We can strongly recommend her video on dealing with autism related meltdowns here.

So I was very interested in this video which introduces us to the concept of verbal stimming. If this is of interest you may also be interested in our recent video post on echolalia here.

Disability Benefits – How difficult was it to get disability benefits for a medical condition? Now updated with new tips and stories!

Disability payments

Disability payments

A few months back we ran a very valuable poll on the subject of disability allowances.  We wondered how many of our readers actually received some form of disability payment from their governments because of the medical condition.  You can see the results here.

With this blog post we would like to extend the conversation a bit further.  We would like to explore how difficult it was to get payments you think you were owed.  As a point of full disclosure we get Disability Living Allowance in the UK for our son who has autism.  When we were in the process of applying we were advised to get professional help.  This was because the forms were set out in a  way as to make them almost incomprehensible to somebody who was not a public servant.   That being said we did and do get payments for our son so……………

Firstly it would be great if you could take the poll below sharing what you felt was the level of difficulty in getting a disability payment.

Secondly it would be great if you could use the comments box to tell us your story about making a claim for disability support.  Especially if you have any tips you can share with our readers.

Many thanks in advance!


 

Tabbie For anyone applying for disability please contact your senators office, check online for your local senator and get the email. Tell them how long ago you applied, what your process has been like, the fact that you have no income and they will do an inquiry. My husband applied with a lawyer, got his first denial (almost everyone does) then 6 months later ended up contacting his senator. The SS department canceled his physical exam and approved him within 60 days of him contacting his senator. He got his back pay before his first check (almost unheard of). It may not help you, but worth the time submitting an e-mail.
JessicaTaber How long after you applied did you get the response? We applied Jan 15th. We went for a psych exam from the state Dr but still no response…
theUnprofound When went to my screening the Doctor didn’t even know what Rheumatoid Arthritis was, she just did so xrays of my knees, which were not inflammed at the moment. So, knowing that the Doctor was going to decline my request. I wrote Governor Rick Perry in Texas where I live, before my verdict came in, and explained my situation, and he granted me benefits. This was way back during his first term as Governor, and I’ve had benefits ever since. But, it is too bad the benefits don’t cover natural remedies.
AngelaSwanson It’s not a cancer so they didn’t seem to give a damn
Mser1986 I filled out the necessary papers on line and let my neurologist and primary doctor know that I filed the papers. Let them know every little thing that has changed. From not being able to do everyday things to what you can no longer do with your family. Good luck!
Kkgmudryk A little late on the reply … I’ve just come across this forum.
When I appealed, I sent in copies of actual doctor and specialists reports. I find that depending on the doctor or specialist, if I tell them ahead of time that I’m trying for benefits, they might write their reports a little different. Worded more carefully.
When I appealed, I sent in a letter I wrote and 1 letter from a specialist. At the very end of the letter, he wrote something along the lines of ” she is severely disabled and will remain this way” … Or something like that. I got approved.
Keep trying. I totally know the hopeless feeling and it can be so hard sometimes. But you have to keep trying.
Good luck!
Kkgmudryk Hi there
The advice that I received from specialists and doctors was to not give up. Keep applying. I had applied for AISH as well and was declined quite quickly because my spouse makes too much apparently. Which is fine but we are still struggling.
So I decided that AISH was a lost cause. I couldn’t try to appeal as his income wasn’t changing. So I focused my time and energy on CPP. I just wrote a long post about my journey so far …
Kkgmudryk I’ve currently been off work for almost 2 years due to an accident about 3.5 years ago. Have quite a few issues.. But a lot is unknown right now.
I am in canada. So when I first went off work, I did apply for EI disability benefits. I was approved but you only receive 15 weeks of pay. After that, there really isn’t a lot of options as far as benefits.
I applied once for cpp disability ( was advised by dr and specialists that it’s quite hard and you usually get declined) so I waited and then got declined. I didn’t appeal at that point.
So I actually reapplied this year. I was declined once again. So I appealed and actually got approved for benefits. Now don’t get me wrong, it’s awesome but not at the same time. It’s kind of like all the things drs have been saying about you… Writin in the reports … It’s all true. And you kind of need to go through the excitement of being approved but then it’s like you need to go through all the emotions associated with the reason WHY you’ve gotten approved.
For some people, this may not be difficult. But I am 27 and my drs outlooks don’t look great. I know, stay positive blah blah blah. But after what I’ve been through … It hard.
So I’m still waiting on actually receiving the benefits. I got the original letter saying I was approved. Then another letter … This one sent really say much. Said you had to wait. And then last week, I got another letter explaining how much I receive monthy, and they are even providing retroactive pay for me. It’s going to help a lot.
What I did find annoying was that they provide you with a phone number in case you have any questions. Ok, I call, apparently because they are sooo busy they aren’t accepting calls. So where does that leave me? I need to try and find the time to go to a service canada building.
I would say that overall, the process is frustrating. For a couple of reasons. You don’t really get assistance while completing the application. The wait times are kind of crazy. I’ve heard of people waiting months. I guess I just got a little lucky. there aren’t a lot of options for disability benefits I find. I understand, if it was easy to obtain, everyone would try. And I do understand that there are a lot of people with varying disabilities and it’s a case by case kind of thing. I wish there were some other programs that could help you out.
So still waiting to receive the benefits. I’m not sure if I have a blank chq on file ( same place that provided my EI payments and that was direct deposit ) and I’ve tried going online to figure this all out, but I couldn’t sign in and you need to request a user code and wait as well. Frustrating.
End rant! Lol
LindasueZambach I was denied as well. Contact Allsup they handle MS cases. They handle all the filing and paperwork. They walk you through everything. When you contact them say I referred you. If you need their website or phone number I can give it to you. You have to submit your appeal ASAP or at least in 90 days. Good luck to you.
LukeBiltonLynn Based the disability living allowance application on worst days, was honest about support needs and included all possible professional’s details for consideration. Took them 3 months to make a decision but we get some support around both mobility and care for our 10 year old aspie son.
RachaelCox MichelleHarper  Hi Michelle, my 16 year has Aspergers & we live in the uk. May i ask how you got the pass for the theme parks? XX
MarilynRoberts SayruhxSays Lawyer.  He gets 1/3rd of that nice big first check, but for some reason judges listen to lawyers, not mere citizens.
MarilynRoberts RondaShammoStoker Lawyer.  He gets 1/3rd of that nice big first check, but for some reason judges listen to lawyers, not mere citizens.
MarilynRoberts Diag’d in ’93.  By ’95 MS took away balance issues and made the bathroom need to be accessible in mere moments notice.  Applied for SSDI, turned down initially.  Then lawyer got me approved, but took his 1/3rd of my first big check.  I have gotten raises from SSDI yet I still get less than a thousand per month.  How am I supposed to eat, keep a roof over my head, and keep utilities on that much?
TanyaSwagelHansen Our son is ASD, has multiple genetic diseases including a bone marrow failure disease, bone deformities and is declared “disabled.” I had to give up my career to care for him full time. We dont qualify fro SSI or any state assistance because according to them my husband makes too much money. We have 5 children, our youngest being the one mentioned above. Nobody takes into consideration how much we must pay out of pocket each month for his care, meds and needs. On top of that we must travel from wisconsin to minnesota and out to seattle for appointments. That is all
of pocket…..but nope, not a penny in help for us.
Suz Swanson SSI for him. Easier to get as a child than as an adult
Suz Swanson 2.5 yes for me
Suz Swanson Yes, keep fighting.
Suz Swanson Hire an attorney. It’s hard to get it at recon.
SharonStephensSchaefer It can affect the ability to own a weapon of any kind. In some places you CAN’T get a professional licence of different kinds I.e. nursing, as a physician, law enforcement because they count as granted for mental instability.
ShanL I was diagnosed with MS in ’92, and the neuro (In Saskatchewan) I HAD ( had being the operative word) told me I would be in a wheelchair within 3 years. I am still on my feet,  I applied for CPP disability and was turned down… the reason they stated “I had not paid enough into the CPP plan to warrant getting benefits” I worked from the time I turned 16 till 2010……steady……  I then applied for AISH, they denied me saying I can earn a viable living. I appealed as when I was diagnosed I was diagnosed with Relapsing and Remitting MS.  Since then my MS has progressed and have tried Lyrica, and gabapenten, to help with the pain, nothing for the CFS, have 2 discs out in back that will not stay in place, Osteoarthritis, scoliosis, and that doesnt include what they class as the more minor afflictions. I walk with a cane, my balance is really bad. I am having a hard time getting any kind of benefits at all
JulieMon1 had to hire an attorney, so he got 1/3rd of my back pay, took 2 yrs to get in okla.
MichelleHarper I am in the uk and I was granted disability living allowance first time the only I can give is answer all questions as fully as possible and put down every little detail however minute, also answer the questions as if you were giving a worst case senario because at some point we all have to deal with the worst case side give as much information and examples as possible. I am glad we got accepted as my son now has a years pass to most of the theme parks in the uk and we are off on holiday soon so don’t give up.
davigash We were not considered until my child was 18. Prior to 18, they count everyone’s income in the household, even other children’s income in the home. That was for SSDI. I put our name on waivers list for Medicaid providers and that took 18 years. Put your name on all available lists, whether you currently need it or not. You never know about the future.
dizzydaniels I am wondering if anyone knows if I could get my 7 year old on disability and if so will effect him in the future. He has adhd, anxiety, and autism.
JenniferReichner I applied in January 2013, and was denied twice already , now I’m patiently waiting for my appeal, who my lawyer said can take a year ..
JenniferKempton ssi i got right away, i’m having issues getting medicaid through the county though.
RondaShammoStoker I have been denied twice and can not claim being disabled on taxes without being paid by Government.  Is there any tricks?
RondaShammoStoker I did not apply early enough.  They have denied me twice now.  Waited for children to get old enough then was not able to work because of The MS.  Should I keep fighting?
AmandaMcDougall Claiming Disability Living Allowance for children under sixteen with brain related conditions A step-by-step guide for parents, carers, support workers and advisers a guide from cerebra i found relly helped well worth a look .

http://www.cerebra.org.uk/sitecollectiondocuments/books/dla_guide.pdf