Autism and meltdowns – so what is the difference between a child’s tantrum and a sensory meltdown?

Autism – so what is the difference between a child’s tantrum and a sensory meltdown?

Autism – so what is the difference between a child’s tantrum and a sensory meltdown?

The difference between a  tantrum and a sensory meltdown?

Pretty much everyone involved with, or part of, the autism community has seen a sensory meltdown of some description.  And all parents have seen a tantrum especially during the “terrible 2s”.  For a lot of parents and caregivers of younger children on the autism spectrum there is some confusion as to the difference between the two.  This is compounded by the fact that a “normal” child’s tantrum can trigger a sensory meltdown in a child on the autism spectrum.  (Actually the reason I’m penning this article is that that is exactly what happened to our son John yesterday afternoon).

So I thought I’d take this opportunity to look a few differences between the two.  (Between you and me it is worth sharing with those members of your family who look oddly when meltdowns occur.  No names no pack drill but we know who we mean!.)

So what is a tantrum?

Well a lot of them can be described as goal orientated.  The child (or adult) has an outcome they desire ( but are thwarted in reaching)  thus the rage.

You might notice that the tantrum, often,  ends quickly and often easily once an outcome has been ascertained.

A lot of people comment that a tantrum is a two way thing.  In the sense the child is keeping an eye on the parent or caregiver to find out how they are re-acting.

Most children having any kind of tantrum still try and avoid getting hurt.

Do be aware that kids on the autism spectrum can have tantrums rather than meltdowns so do look for the signs.

And a Meltdown?

We sensory meltdowns are cause by just that sensory overload.  Now, of course, if a person is tired then this increases the chance of a meltdown.

Crucially the difference is that the person having the meltdown leaves their own zone of security.  The key point is that they are not interested in the reactions of those around them.  This can lead to safety issues because they can endanger themselves physically.

One of the key issues is an inability to communicate effectively.  As the meltdown is not goal orientated it is often hard to find a way to calm the situation.

Finally just because the problem has been resolved does not, necessarily, mean the situation follows suit.  One can still have huge residual problems.

How to cope with a meltdown?

When we started the blog this was one of the biggest issues for my wife in caring for a child on the autism spectrum.  So I ran a blog asking my readers for their tips and ideas.  You can read the results here.

If you have any tips about meltdowns and tantrums please do feel free to share in the comments section below.

And remember you are not a bad parent! Always!

 

patienttalk
patienttalk.org
EvanRaymond Thanks – great insight
EvanRaymond I dont describe it in emotional terms. the nervous system is shutting down. the experience is terrifying. but the root of the experience is a breakdown in the function of the nervous system. autistic nerves get too.much stimuli ans then they just shut off. close their doors.and say. sorry. had enough.
patienttalk
patienttalk.org
rainbowsaretoo Thanks this is so useful
rainbowsaretoo And not all meltdowns are sensory. It’s a complete loss of ability to cope. http://www.rainbowsaretoobeautiful.com/2016/06/autism-parenting-heart-ache-of-one-shoe.html

 

 

EvanRaymond
I dont describe it in emotional terms. the nervous system is shutting down. the experience is terrifying. but the root of the experience is a breakdown in the function of the nervous system. autistic nerves get too.much stimuli ans then they just shut off. close their doors.and say. sorry. had enough.

rainbowsaretoo
And not all meltdowns are sensory. It’s a complete loss of ability to cope. http://www.rainbowsaretoobeautiful.com/2016/06/autism-parenting-heart-ache-of-one-shoe.html

7 Tips to Prevent Caregiver Burnout During the Holidays

It’s a good idea to remind yourself of the activities that make you feel nice and relaxed before the holiday season hits, that way you’ll have methods of keeping stress to a minimum! Learn more by reading this caregiver infographic.

7 Tips to Prevent Caregiver Burnout During the Holidays

From Visually.

The hidden informal role played by caregivers in healthcare

The hidden informal  role played by caregivers in healthcare

The hidden informal role played by caregivers in healthcare

Once a cared-for patient and now a caregiver himself, Scott Williams highlights the invaluable role of informal caregivers — those friends and relatives who, out of love, go the extra mile for patients in need. From personal care to advocacy to emotional support, unpaid caregivers form the invisible backbone of health and social systems all over the world, Williams says — and without them, these systems would crumble. “How can we make sure that their value to patients and society is recognized?” he asks.

Taking Care of Yourself through the Ups and Downs of Caregiving

Taking Care of Yourself through the Ups and Downs of Caregiving

Taking Care of Yourself through the Ups and Downs of Caregiving

Taking Care of Yourself through the Ups and Downs of Caregiving

A must watch video which looks at multiple sclerosis and Parkinson’s disease

But this applies to loads of condition like fibromyalgia and autism.

Does is apply to you?

Taking Care of Yourself through the Ups and Downs of Caregiving from brainXchange on Vimeo.

Caregiving: The Costs, Concerns & Choices

Did you know that there are currently around 6 million people in Britain helping and supporting their family, partners or friends who are ill or disabled?

Caregiving, which can most often be unpaid, can cause an incredible impact on an individual’s life, whether it’s the person giving the care or receiving the care. This just shows that increasing the awareness surrounding caregiving is crucial for all parties, which is where the below infographic comes in, as it outlines the key costs, concerns and the options involved around caregiving.

Whether you’re a professional caregiver, friend or family caregiver, someone looking for advice on caregiving or someone in need of a carer, check out the below infographic by UKS Mobility and help spread the awareness of caregiving.

The infographic outlines what exactly caregiving involves, the financial and emotional costs which can impact an individual, some key concerns and myths, how to find the right caregiver, as well as depicting the various options regarding caregiving.

Caregiving Costs Concerns and Choices

Caregiving Costs Concerns and Choices